Even though we’ve technically moved all of our stuff to the new house, there are still some major not-so-settled aspects to our life right now. The first big thing keeping us firmly planted in the “land of unsettled” is that we don’t have a kitchen (though, the granite guy is coming to measure today, which inches us to the edge of finishing-up). The second thing that reminds us that we are not-quite-moved-in is that at least half of our belongings are still packed in boxes in the garage (a function of still having several major unfinished spaces).
With that in mind, I’ve given up on finding most of my Christmas stuff (though, I know where a few boxes of ornaments and the Advent Ornaments are and figure that’ll do for decor this year). The things I can’t bear to do without, I’m remaking (or buying).
Since I had a pile of plain muslin bags leftover from Adam’s grad party (I originally ordered them from Papersource, I think), Burke and I put together a makeshift advent calendar this weekend (I cut the numbers out of felted wool and then we glued them onto the muslin bags).
-decorate our Christmas tree
-do something fun for mom’s birthday
-pick out a new ornament (we do this every year, usually at Crate & Barrel or World Market)
-do something nice for our neighbors
-make paper snowflakes
-family game night
-volunteer at the Rescue Mission
-decorate the Little Blue Tree (for the kids’ room)
-read the Christmas story in Luke
-watch Family Man
-bake a birthday cake for Jesus
-listen to Christmas on the Beach (a cd my family always listened to as we decorated the tree- it started as a joke, but the tradition remains)
-drive around to look at Christmas lights
-build a fort with twinkle lights
-go to Nana’s cookie party
-go to a movie at the theater
-cozy picnic with hot cocoa and marshmallows
-watch Polar Express
-build a gingerbread house
-eat a candy cane
-visit a park we have never been to
-bake Christmas cookies
A quick note about balance- our mom did a fantastic job of making the holiday season magical and brimming with traditions. I really want to give my kids that same kind of Christmas season. At the same time, a calendar that is too full or packed with obligations is overwhelming and makes for grouchy kids (and parents!). I try to build into the list all of the things that we’ve committed to (my mother-in-law’s cookie exchange and volunteering at the Rescue Mission, for example). I also try to add a generous dose of ‘low maintenance’ things (eat a candy cane, listen to Christmas on the Beach, etc.). And finally, I try to add in a few activities that we do around here anyway (visit a new park, family game night). That way, the fabulous part of having traditions is not overshadowed by a frantic schedule (or a frantic mama).
Do you have an advent calendar this year? How do you balance the fabulous, magical Christmas-y parts of this season with the tendency towards frenzy?